why am i still single?? here are the answers.

Whats the problem of being single?? I personally enjoy my single life. I don't have to secretly sneak out to meet anyone. I can just tell my mom I'm going out with my girlfriends and my family wont wake up one day and found out that I'm pregnant. OK, that pregnant part is too much :) The bottom line is, being single is not like the end of the world or the time for you to go for a man hunt. NO! It simply means that you have to take your time and analyze your previous relationship.

I'm sick of being asked 'when will you get yourself a boyfriend?' I mean, HELLO, being single is not like the end of the world. Duhh~ I don't have to have a boyfriend just because the people around me are all dating. I;m not that desperate lah you know.

Being single for a long time doesn't mean I hate to be in a relationship. Its just that I give myself time to think what's the best for me and for my future. I'm not a high school kid who'll just accept someone who told me that he likes me, anymore. I'm not gonna date someone who's future is unsure yet. I mean, if somebody who is jobless trying to hit on you, will you accept him rather than somebody who has a job and  can guarantee you a better future. I'm not saying that I'm a materialistic. I don't. But at least choose someone who already has a job and can feed you after you get married.

You might say that love can guarantee you happiness. But eventually, you'll know that you can't feed your kids with your love and its probably too late to realize that. They need foods. How to get foods?? With love?? heh~ 

I'm not saying that you have to marry someone you don't love just because of their money. What I mean here is you have to make sure the person that you're going to marry with is working. Believe me, you don't want to marry a jobless and end up pay all the bills by yourself while your husband sit at home reading newspaper and sipping coffee while you're working your ass out trying to support your family financially.

So, those who really like to ask me questions like 'when u gonna get a boyfriend?', 'when will I see your boyfriend?' etc. etc. whenever you feel like want to ask me those questions, read this entry over and over again. You'll find the answer, InsyaALLAH.